I recently seen how often doctors get things wrong and unfortunately I’ve also seen the numbers of people who get so depressed by the information they received that they suffer with the diagnosis rather than live with the illness. We need never suffer. I tried to explain the difference between pain and ache and though many think of them as the same, I recognize that we only ache when we give into pain. Aching is a state of mind, a continuous, the condition of suffering from the symptoms of pain. It is therefore possible to have pain and not suffer or ache.